Luxury Wedding Planning Across the UK

Thoughtfully Planned & Beautifully Delivered Celebrations for Discerning Couples

Thoughtfully Planned & Beautifully Delivered Celebrations for Discerning Couples

Luxury Wedding Planning Across the UK

Our UK Wedding Planning Services

As a luxury wedding planner serving London, the Midlands, Yorkshire and destinations across the UK, Benessamy specialises in creating beautifully planned, joy-filled celebrations that feel entirely personal to you.

Planning a wedding is exciting — but it can also feel overwhelming, time-consuming and difficult to manage alongside everyday life. We offer a calm, supportive and highly personalised service for couples who want a beautifully planned celebration. With a reputation for calm guidance, meticulous organisation and refined event design, we help you create a wedding that feels thoughtful, joyful and entirely your own — without the stress.

Whether you’re looking for full wedding planning, expert day-of management or targeted support as your plans evolve, our services are designed to support you at every stage of the journey.

a sophisticated wedding reception with elegant tablescapes, ambient lighting and high-end floral styling

Full-Service Wedding Planning

A seamless, fully supported planning experience from concept to celebration

Often working with newly engaged couples in the early stages of their wedding planning journey, we provide an attentive, personal service from the moment you get in touch. Our full-service wedding planning is ideal for couples seeking a seamless, beautifully curated celebration with expert support from start to finish.

Known for our confident, calm approach, we provide guidance, thoughtful advice and a highly personalised approach. With an expert on board from the very beginning, you’ll have complete peace of mind knowing that every detail is carefully handled by a highly experienced UK wedding planning team. 

We take care of venue sourcing, supplier management, creative direction, design guidance, budget tracking, logistics, schedules and complete on-the-day coordination. You enjoy the exciting parts of the process while we look after the details.

Our full-service wedding planning is tailored to meet your requirements. As a guide here's an idea of what might be included:

  • Regular consultations throughout the planning process
  • UK wedding venue search and supplier recommendations
  • Assistance with supplier selection, including review of proposals and contracts
  • Design and styling advice for a beautifully cohesive celebration
  • Wedding budget planning and management
  • Ongoing liaison with your venue and suppliers
  • Production of a bespoke, detailed wedding day timeline and contact list
  • Final planning meeting plus a venue walk-through the day before
  • On-site setup, styling, co-ordination and management
  • Full on-the-day wedding coordination
  • Support with rehearsal events and post-wedding celebrations
  • Complete setup and take-down service, including co-ordination of post-event collections.

Fee

Our full-service wedding planning is priced at 15% of your overall budget and is subject to a minimum fee from £9,500. We will provide a personalised quotation following your introductory consultation.

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A Beautifully Curated Luxury Wedding at Wootton Hall

" From the first conversation, Val took so much care to get to know us and listen carefully to what was important to us in planning our wedding. She assembled a dream team of suppliers to work with, taking into consideration our style and personalities. She kept in constant communication with us and helped make even the stressful moments really fun. On the day of our wedding? Val ensured a flawless experience for us and our guests. While Val was amazing to work with all along the way, we appreciated most her focus on helping us remember this is a special day for the two of us to represent our love and commitment. A huge thank you to Val and her team for an amazing wedding weekend! "

Katy & Paul

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Wedding Planner Overseeing Setup on the Day

Wedding Day Management (On-the-Day-Coordination)

Expert coordination to ensure your carefully crafted plans unfold flawlessly

This service is ideal if you’ve planned everything yourself but want professional support during the final weeks.

With our wedding day management service, you and your loved ones can enjoy every moment without worrying about logistics or supplier communication. We ensure your wedding day unfolds exactly as you envisioned.

We step in six weeks before the wedding to review your plans, liaise with your suppliers, refine your timeline and provide calm, expert support throughout your celebration.

On the day, we are by your side from morning preparations to the final moments of the evening — so you can relax, enjoy the experience and trust that everything is being taken care of.

Our Wedding Day Management Service Includes:

  • A detailed planning meeting 4–6 weeks before your wedding
  • Contacting your venue and suppliers to confirm timings and setup
  • Creation of a thorough wedding day schedule
  • Overseeing setup and décor
  • Co-ordination with your venue and all suppliers
  • On-the-day co-ordination from an experienced wedding professional

Our Fee:

From £2,500, depending on location, complexity and team requirements. You will receive a tailored proposal following an initial Introductory Call when we have discussed your plans and the help you require.

Luxury Wedding Planning Across the UK

SOS Planning Consultation

Focus expert guidance to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Perfect for couples seeking clarity, direction or expert advice, the SOS Consultation is a focused two-hour session designed to remove overwhelm and help you move forward confidently with your wedding plans.

Whether you’re newly engaged, stuck mid-planning, re-evaluating your budget, unsure about supplier choices or concerned about logistics, you’ll receive tailored guidance and a clear, practical action plan.

We're here to help you sail through the myriad of wedding planning information and to ensure this exciting time doesn't turn into an overwhelming and daunting one.

Our Fee:

From £550

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How We Work

Every wedding is unique — and so is the way we approach it. Our process is designed to feel calm, collaborative and deeply personal.

1. Introductory Consultation
We begin by getting to know you, understanding your vision and discussing your priorities and requirements.

2. Personalised Proposal
You receive a tailored proposal outlining the level of service and support that best aligns with your plans.

3. Guidance at Every Step
We become your trusted planning partners — offering expert advice, managing communications, and keeping all details beautifully organised.

4. A Seamless Wedding Day
On the day itself, we are your dedicated team: attentive, discreet and fully committed to creating a smooth, joyful experience for you and your guests.

Your Investment

Our fees reflect the level of expertise, time and personalised service we bring to every wedding. Prices vary depending on complexity, location and overall scope.

For full-service planning, wedding day management and consultations, please refer to the fee guides above and get in touch for a tailored proposal aligned with your plans.

Luxury Wedding Planning Across the UK

Make Your Wedding Unforgettable

If you want a celebration that feels vibrant, unforgettable and filled with meaningful “wow” moments, we’d love to support you every step of the way.

Val Mattinson
Val Mattinson
Director and Head Planner

Luxury Wedding & Event Planning Across the UK, London. Midlands & the Caribbean

We're here to listen, advise and support: Providing attentive, personal service from the moment you get in touch

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Your questions, answered...

We're happy to answer any queries you may have so please do get in touch. In the meantime, here are the answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about our wedding planning and design services.

  • I'M WORRIED THAT IF I HIRE A WEDDING PLANNER, I WILL LOSE CONTROL OF THE PLANS FOR MY BIG DAY

    We never take over or make you feel like you’ve lost control of your plans. Instead, we work with you to ensure every detail is covered for you. We listen, advise and support you throughout your wedding planning journey. 

     

  • OUR CHOSEN VENUE HAS AN IN-HOUSE CO-ORDINATOR OR EVENT MANAGER. DO I STILL NEED A WEDDING PLANNER?

    It’s a very common question — and the short answer is that a venue co-ordinator and an independent wedding planner have very different roles.

    A venue co-ordinator or event manager is responsible for elements directly related to the venue itself. This typically includes access, set-up of venue spaces, deliveries, logistics within the property and overseeing the venue team. Their focus is, quite rightly, on the smooth operation of the venue on the day.

    What they don’t usually do is manage your wedding as a whole. They won’t oversee your entire planning journey, guide you through decision-making, curate and manage your supplier team, or hold the full vision for how your wedding should look, feel and flow from start to finish. It’s also worth noting that the person you’ve been liaising with in the lead-up may not always be the person present on the day itself, as responsibility is sometimes handed over to another member of the venue team.

    As your wedding planners, we act as your independent advocates. If you engage us from the outset, we build an in-depth understanding of your vision, priorities, guest experience and every supplier involved. We manage communication, anticipate challenges, and ensure all the moving parts come together seamlessly.

    Even if you bring us on later in the process, we step in during the final weeks to review every detail, create a comprehensive timeline covering every aspect of your day — including those that fall outside the venue’s remit — and coordinate all suppliers so nothing is missed.

    On the wedding day itself, we work alongside the venue team, ensuring everything runs smoothly behind the scenes while you and your guests simply enjoy the celebration. The result is a calm, cohesive and beautifully orchestrated experience — not just for the venue, but for your entire wedding day.

  • I DON'T LIVE IN THE UK, CAN YOU HELP?

    Absolutely yes! We regularly work with clients who are planning nationally and internationally. A lot of the planning can be completed remotely. We can meet with you via video call throughout all the key stages of your planning and we use an online system to keep you up to date with the progress of your plans.

     

  • DO YOU WORK ON WEDDINGS ANYWHERE IN THE UK?

    Yes — we plan and manage weddings across the UK, from elegant city venues to countryside estates and private homes.

     

  • HOW FAR IN ADVANCE SHOULD WE BOOK?

    Most couples book 12–18 months ahead, though we can support shorter timelines depending on availability.

     

  • WHAT SIZE WEDDINGS DO YOU SPECIALISE IN?

    We work on intimate celebrations through to large-scale weddings. The key factor is alignment with our planning style and service level.

     

  • DO YOU OFFER PARTIAL PLANNING?

    Yes. While most of our clients choose Full Wedding Planning, we also offer a tailored Partial Planning service for couples who have made a start but want expert guidance to elevate their plans and ensure every detail comes together beautifully. If you only need focused support or on-the-day coordination, our SOS Consultation or Wedding Day Management service may also be the right fit.

  • HOW DO WE GET STARTED?

    Simply get in touch or book an Introductory Call to begin the process.

Destination Wedding Planning Services

We also specialise in destination weddings in the Caribbean. Our passports are always ready for their next adventure and we’d love to help you plan your dream wedding anywhere in the world. Find out more....

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