Meet the Planner

A few factoids about me as we celebrate our 6th Birthday.

Val Mattinson - Christopher Terry Photography

Hi I'm Val and I'm the Creative Director and Planner behind Benessamy. As part of our 6th Birthday celebrations, I thought I'd share a few factoids about me:

  • My parents are from the beautiful Caribbean Island of Barbados.
  • I'm part of a HUGE family that spans across the UK, the Caribbean and the US
  • When I was little I wanted to be a nurse like my mum, until I discovered I was squeamish!
  • I'm a MASSIVE fan of the Smiths something that I've not been able to shake since my teens!

Smiths Fan - aged 18

  • I cry whenever I watch DIY SOS
  • Current favourite film: The Pursuit of Happiness
  • I'm a recovering soapaholic having weaned myself off watching TV soaps!
  • I'm multi lingual - I can speak Yorkshire, Bajan and London, fluently!
  • My husband proposed to me in a little place in Cornwall called Ding Dong!
  • I was married by a female vicar in 1994 and our wedding was her very first wedding.

Me and Mr M

  • I'm the mother of a 21 year old creative fashionista (Jessamy) and an 18 year old power athlete (Ben) both with more determination and drive than you can shake a stick at! The name ‘Benessamy' is a combination of their names. They are my daily inspiration and definitely keep me focused and on my toes!

My Two!

  • Current Favourite Book: Abundance Now by Lisa Nichols
  • All time favourite book: Captain Corellis Mandolin
  • Current Favourite Perfume: Earl Grey and Cucumber by Jo Malone
  • I met my husband almost 30 years ago at nurses night at the Irish Club in Nottingham and neither of us are Irish or nurses!
  • Hair styles - I've had a few!

Back in the day

  • Chocolate or Cheese? - That's a tough one! I have a sweet tooth but I have a cheeseboard weakness too!
  • Two of my favourite quotations:

Maya Angelou Quote

Comparison is the thief of joy

For the more ('official') facts about me...) head over to our About page.

Until next time,

Val x

Top image credit: Christopher Terry Photography

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Val Mattinson
Val Mattinson
Director and Head Planner

Val Mattinson is the founder and Head Planner at Benessamy, specialising in luxury weddings and beautifully curated celebrations across the UK and the Caribbean. With over 15 years of experience, Val is known for her calm, reassuring approach and meticulous attention to detail — supporting couples and hosts who want an unforgettable experience without the overwhelm.

If you’re beginning your planning journey and would like expert guidance, get in touch to arrange an introductory call. Val would love to help you create a celebration that feels thoughtful, joyful and effortlessly seamless.

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