I'm often asked about the origins of the name Benessamy and the reasons for choosing the name.

For those who know me or have followed me here or on social media, you'll know just how important my family are to me. I'm part of a large extended family who live in the UK, US, Canada and on the beautiful island of Barbados. I'm also extremely fortunate to have a loving husband and we're blessed with two fabulous children.
At the beginning of the story of Benessamy Wedding and Event Design and at its heart, is my family.

When my brother and sister-in-law got married on the beautiful island of Barbados, a few things didn't quite go to plan for them so I stepped in and assisted with the coordination of their day - I loved every second! You could say I have them to thank for lighting the spark that fuelled the fire.


The business name 'Benessamy' is a blending of the names of my two children, Ben and Jessamy (and Jessamy is also my mother's maiden name): so the whole venture really is rooted in love!
You can find out more about the story behind the business and my commitment to our clients here.
I get great joy and satisfaction from planning and creating luxurious, heartfelt celebrations for people who want to feel they're in safe hands so if you're ready to discuss how I can help you with your plans, please get in touch to arrange a complimentary consultation. I look forward to meeting you soon!
Val x
Val Mattinson is the founder and Head Planner at Benessamy, specialising in luxury weddings and beautifully curated celebrations across the UK and the Caribbean. With over 15 years of experience, Val is known for her calm, reassuring approach and meticulous attention to detail — supporting couples and hosts who want an unforgettable experience without the overwhelm.
If you’re beginning your planning journey and would like expert guidance, get in touch to arrange an introductory call. Val would love to help you create a celebration that feels thoughtful, joyful and effortlessly seamless.
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