For many brides one of the most important things to do in the early stages of their wedding planning is to find the perfect dress.

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Here are my 10 Top Tips to help you find the dress of your dreams.
1. With such an array of wedding dresses to choose from pick one that will make you LOOK and FEEL amazing!
2. Choose a dress that's in keeping with your venue, wedding style and (if you have one) wedding theme.
3. Allow plenty of time to find your perfect dress at least 6-9 months before your big day.
4.Before rushing out to the shops take time to look through magazines, wedding blogs, etc for ideas.
5.Use wedding magazines, wedding blogs and bridal shows to help you identify your budget.
6. Use an online pinboard like Pinterest to find inspiration and collect ideas.
7. When trying on wedding dresses take 1 or 2 helpful and honest friends or members of your family with you.
8. If you're not sure what style of wedding dress would suit you best seek advice from a good wedding boutique.
9. Seek advice from the wedding boutique but don't be pressured into making a choice if you're not sure.
10. When you think you've found THE dress don't buy in haste...sleep on it, dream about it and then decide!
Until next time.....
Val x
Val Mattinson is the founder and Head Planner at Benessamy, specialising in luxury weddings and beautifully curated celebrations across the UK and the Caribbean. With over 15 years of experience, Val is known for her calm, reassuring approach and meticulous attention to detail — supporting couples and hosts who want an unforgettable experience without the overwhelm.
If you’re beginning your planning journey and would like expert guidance, get in touch to arrange an introductory call. Val would love to help you create a celebration that feels thoughtful, joyful and effortlessly seamless.
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